For Anxious, Career Women
Dating Coach
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you keep letting your dating anxiety and obsessive tendencies cock-block you.
You just need to find him… but you won’t be able to do that if
He's out there!
You want — and deserve! — someone who consistently drops money on gifts, plans dates, moves his schedule around to accommodate your pilates routine AND shares his inner world with you. And let me assure you:
What if your next man erased every question mark about where you stand in his heart?
Dating is a delicious rite of passage! A chance to reinvent, rediscover, and rewrite your love story. I’m the coach for bold women who want their dating life to feel like a Sex and the City episode: flirty, fun, unforgettable, and full of men who actually step the fuck up.
But you have to date with EMOTIONAL BALANCE + STRATEGY to access it
If you’ve been stuck in messy situationships, unexpected ghosting, and “WTF?” breakups, I need you to know there’s a much better future out there for you.
and sends you straight into the arms of the man beyond your wildest dreams
Hi, I’m Theory — the dating coach who breaks you out of heartbreak jail
You’re just someone with a lot to lose. For many women, it feels safer to avoid dating altogether than risk the anxiety, overthinking, and emotional fallout that comes with another failed connection. I am here to help you change that.
When you have practical guidance + somatic tools to diffuse the emotional bombs (fear, doubt, shame), your dating life takes on a whole new chapter. Instead of spiraling endlessly after another fizzled-out connection, you’ll bounce back hotter and even more confident for your future husband. This is how you become the one men choose for wifey status.
you’re not broken
If you’re cool as a cucumber while single but terrified of losing sleep, focus, and inner peace the moment a man enters the picture,
Dating is a big risk!
HOW CAN I SUPPORT YOU IN YOUR NEW SPICY AF DATING ERA
- Amelia, Therapist
"Hiring Coach Theory is going to help you build confidence in dating and in finding independent emotional resilience in the process."
- Lily, Electronic Sales
“Be ready to face your truth, be ready to cry and laugh, be ready for brutal honesty, but most of all be ready and open to learning and changing."
- Asin, Marketing Student
“Now, I’m able to name my emotions, deal with my triggers, and even state my needs. I’m still a work in progress, but I can see a huge difference in myself.”
- Alex, Photographer
“She’ll go to bat for you and get you out of your own damn way. My nervous system has been restored to a level of peace I have not experienced since I was a child. My brain no longer plays games with me.”
- Lily, Electronic Sales
“Be ready to face your truth, be ready to cry and laugh, be ready for brutal honesty, but most of all be ready and open to learning and changing.”
- Amelia, Therapist
"Hiring Coach Theory is going to help you build confidence in dating and in finding independent emotional resilience in the process."
- Alex, Photographer
“She’ll go to bat for you and get you out of your own damn way. My nervous system has been restored to a level of peace I have not experienced since I was a child. My brain no longer plays games with me.”
- Asin, Marketing Student
"Now, I’m able to name my emotions, deal with my triggers, and even state my needs. I’m still a work in progress, but I can see a huge difference in myself."
I CAN FIX THAT!
And I know you didn’t get this hot and successful to do life alone.
If you’ve read this far, it’s because you know you’re ready for a true partner — not those confusing, half-built connections, “almost” relationships, and men who are beneath you.
(EVEN THOUGH *YOU* ARE THE SINGLE ONE…)
…but you won’t meet the love of your life while sitting on your couch, watching Love Is Blind, and judging the contestants.
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